Impact of Parents' Behaviors and Treatment on Their Child/Children

As You Sow So Shall You Reap

Parents carry lots of responsibilities towards shaping the psyche and behavior of their child/children. Their own behavior and treatment can have great immediate and long lasting impact on their child/children. Your deeds, good or bad, will repay you positively or negatively.

In this regard given below are certain statements that can guide the parents.

Positive Actions and Positive Impact

• If a child lives with security, he learns to have faith in himself.
• If a child lives with acceptance, he learns to love.
• If a child lives with recognition, he learns to have a goal.
• If a child lives with approval, he learns to like himself.
• If a child lives with friendliness, he learns that the world a nice place in which to live.

Negative Actions and Negative Impact

• If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn.
• If a child lives with hostility, he learns to fight.
• If a child lives with fear, he learns to be apprehensive.
• If a child lives with pity, he learns to be sorry for himself.
• If a child lives with jealously, he learns to feel guilty.

Thus parents' strong and weak behaviors reappear in their own child/children as positive and negative behaviors. Therefore parents have to be careful to demonstrate their right side almost all the time. They must create a healthy environment at home.

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