Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Impact of Parents' Behaviors and Treatment on Their Child/Children


As You Sow So Shall You Reap

Parents carry lots of responsibilities towards shaping the psyche and behavior of their child/children. Their own behavior and treatment can have great immediate and long lasting impact on their child/children. Your deeds, good or bad, will repay you positively or negatively.

In this regard given below are certain statements that can guide the parents.

Positive Actions and Positive Impact
  • If a child lives with security, he learns to have faith in himself.
  • If a child lives with acceptance, he learns to love.
  • If a child lives with recognition, he learns to have a goal.
  • If a child lives with approval, he learns to like himself.
  • If a child lives with friendliness, he learns that the world a nice place in which to live.
Negative Actions and Negative Impact
  • If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn.
  • If a child lives with hostility, he learns to fight.
  • If a child lives with fear, he learns to be apprehensive.
  • If a child lives with pity, he learns to be sorry for himself.
  • If a child lives with jealously, he learns to feel guilty.
Thus parents' strong and weak behaviors reappear in their own child/children as positive and negative behaviors. Therefore parents have to be careful to demonstrate their right side almost all the time. They must create a healthy environment at home.

You may also like to read:

Family Harmony:  http://family-harmony.blogspot.com/ or
Marriage Harmony: http://marriage-counsel.blogspot.com/

Monday, July 20, 2009

Children's Behavior Problems


List of Children's Behavior Problems: Normally Seen (in Alphabetic Order)
  • Bed-wetting
  • Being unable to sit still and focus
  • Breath-holding spells
  • Disruptive behavior problem
  • Eating problems
  • Encopresis
  • Excessive energy levels
  • Extreme sensitivities and excessive fears
  • Fears
  • Fighting with peers
  • Frequent tantrums
  • Hitting
  • Lying
  • Picky eaters
  • Poor self image
  • Pushing
  • Refusal to partake in normal childhood experiences or play
  • School Avoidance
  • Shyness
  • Sibling rivalry
  • Sleep Problems
  • Stealing
  • Temper Tantrums
  • Yelling

Unique Behaviors (in Alphabetic Order)

  • Constant humming or making noises
  • Excessive smelling and sniffing
  • Finger flicking
  • Grinding teeth
  • Head banging, scratching or biting self
  • Jumping or shaking extremities
  • Lunging
  • Rocking back and forth
  • Spinning or mouthing objects
  • Spinning self


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